Fall is quickly approaching and you have decided to dispense with all of the conventional notions of what a wedding should be. It is about time. It is your day, and should be what you want it to be, so let us get creative. Now I assume that you have dug up a groom, and he agrees to the Halloween Wedding. Your Prince of Darkness should be willing to pitch in with the planning and execution of the ceremony. If he is not, kiss another frog.
1. Location is everything. Your choice should be the perfect backdrop for your ceremony. While there are chapels in Las Vegas that specialize in themed weddings, you may want to look for something a little closer to home. Many historic or Victorian mansions take on a mysterious air after dark. There should be more than a few in your area that are available for weddings. It is important to check availability well in advance of the wedding, and do a full tour of the facility.
2. Clergy. This could be a problem since some religions are opposed to the celebration of Halloween. If you run into this problem I suggest a non-denominational officiant. Your local phone directory or the Internet will help you to find the perfect person to preside over your unholy union.
3. The decorations. DROP THE PLASTIC SKULL, AND BACK AWAY SLOWLY! Think classy, not tacky. Iron candelabras, burgundy velvets, wreaths of autumn leaves, and blood red roses will get you started.
4. Your invitations. If you are going for a heavier fall influence, check out my fall wedding invitations at http://www.zazzle.com/noteableexpressions/gifts?cg=196257522018453313&rf=238936391098336092. For the truly undead look to my Gothic wedding invitations at http://www.zazzle.com/noteableexpressions/gifts?cg=196939876300544372&rf=238936391098336092 . If you can't find what you are looking for contact me and we can design the perfect invitation together!5. When wording the invitations, be sure to inform the guests that it is a costume or Gothic event. Just in case someone shows up without one, make sure you offer a selection of masks. These can be found at your local dollar store around Halloween, or from vendors like Oriental Trading Company all year.
6. You may want to describe the reception as a costume or a masquerade ball to be sure that your guests get the point.
7. Your Hallowedding attire: If you want to be cheesy, stop reading. It is very important to summon your inner goth. She knows that you can't buy your wedding gown in the Wal Mart costume section. Exactly how far are you willing to go for the spirit of Halloween? I suggest dropping the word 'costume' from your vocabulary and head directly to www.milieux.com for so many options that you will actually feel your pulse...
8. For his attire, look into www.theaesthetik.com (the corset coat and corset vest are HOT!), www.arcanelore.com (not for the faint hearted dark prince) , or www.darklinks.com . Whatever you do, make sure that he knows that Bela Lugosi is not, repeat NOT, an option.
9. For the wedding party, you may want to leave them to their own devices, or Bridezilla, you can simply have full creative control. Red or black gowns for your attendants, and tails for his groomsmen.
10. For realistic accessories, check out www.vampfangs.com . In addition to fangs, they carry a large selection of Manic Panic makeup. Hot Topic is a great source as well, and you just might be able to find all of your Gothic accoutrement there. Don't forget the black lace garter!
11. When considering the desired makeup effect, it is important to start practicing well in advance of the ceremony. This also applies to hair. While some think that the Bride of Frankenstein is hot, your fiancee may not feel the same. www.vamp.org will give you some fail safe tips, straight from the vampires fang.
12. The musical score for your wedding will set the perfect mood.
13. Talk to those in the know for advice. Many wedding planners are virtually useless in this situation. Remember, this is anything but the typical wedding. Go to www.halloweddings.com for some unique ideas from someone who has actually been a part of a Hallowedding.
14. Drinks. Another of my personal favorite things, just happens to be Vampire Wines. They are the perfect beverage accent to the Halloween Wedding. From the Dracula Syrah to the Dracula Zinfandel, this is simply a must have. www.wickedwinesonline.com offers Vampire Wines and other darkness inspired beverage choices. You can also discuss the possibility of ordering Vampire Wines by the case with your local liquor store manager. Or if you already have a favorite wine or beverage - check out my wine labels at http://www.zazzle.com/noteableexpressions/gothic+wine+avery+labels&rf=238936391098336092.
15. Your Halloween Wedding cake should be appetizing, yet still reflect the mood of the evening. www.designsbydorian.com offers bat, crow, and skeleton cake toppers. I like the "Love Never Dies" topper. Gothic romance at it's finest. For wedding cake ideas, go to www.freedsbakery.com , or talk to your local baker. I suggest avoiding the orange and black routine.
16. Flowers are really up to the bride. A white Calla Lillies is classy, deep red roses are just the right amount of morbid, and for the truly disturbed, having your roses died black is always an option.
17. Your photographer should be experienced in Gothic photography. Because of the unique atmosphere and lighting, you don't want your pictures too bright, or too dark. Think candle light.
18. Hire a D.J. with a large selection of music for the reception. Be very specific about the mood that you want to create.
19. www.wedthemes.com has a few really great ideas for wedding favors, as does www.favorideas.com . I would use black net and red ribbon instead of orange for the net favors.
20. Consider adding special touches. Some traditions weddings include releasing doves, why not crows?
Whatever you have in mind, the sites that I have provided are a great place to start. Be sure to allow yourself plenty of time to plan the event, and BREATHE, it is only eternity.
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